21 Reasons Why women Wouldn't Date Themselves (Brutally Honest Reddit Thread)

Let's be real. When swiping through dating apps and online dating websites, we love to point out flaws in others while ignoring our own. Be it their profile picture featuring 9 other people or a cringey bio that reads like a grocery list - we'll always manage to find something to criticize. But now that we think about it, maybe just maybe it might actually be useful to take a long hard look in the mirror and start with ourselves. Sure, we may have had some pretty crazy and awful exes, but ultimately, we were the ones who chose them. 

That brings us to today's piece. We recently stumbled upon one of the most brutally honest female Reddit threads we've seen in a while. Someone asked the women of Reddit to name the reason why they wouldn't date themselves and well, let's just say that these women did not hold back. They did not beat around the bush nor sugarcoat things, just straight-out exposure. We love to see it. 

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